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Thursday, October 4, 2012

How do you feel about death?


Question


How do you feel about death?
Do you ever think about it seriously and do you think its foolish not do so?


Answer


Hope for the best, but plan for the worst. A good aphorism to live by.brbrThe first part means not stressing out about it. Everyone will be happy to tell you all kind of things about death. How it happens. When and how it will happen to you. But its all a crock. Nobody REALLY knows. Nobody can even really say it will happen to you. Maybe, as you say, the fountain of youth will be discovered tomorrow. If the future were certain, thered be no need to go there at all.brbrThat reduces death to just a dark room. Its something and we dont know what it is. Children might fear monsters in a dark room, but were not children. We can think about the things that might be there, and we can prepare ourselves for any dark room by just learning about our selves, experiencing new things, and sampling the large variety of welllit rooms that are available to us. It is people who are ready for a challenge of any kind who have the least to fear from death.brbrSpeaking for myself, I see so many welllit rooms around me, that Id have no problem exploring them all for centuries and maybe even millennia if the opportunity is afforded to me. Perhaps there are wonders even greater in that dark room... but there are so many wonders here that I see no reason to rush at all.



How do you deal with someone who, no matter what, hates you unconditionally?


Question


How do you deal with someone who, no matter what, hates you unconditionally?
...quotMe and another person are drowning in the ocean. Theres only one life jacket. Who would you throw it to?quot .......


Answer


I really like your poem. Its contents are surprising and it is well written with very few words. You dont go on forever, as I often do, so that gives this much power. brbrIn the life boat. Id give one to you and one to the other person, and try to keep the three of us together by holding on to you two. So, you would have to find some way to be good to each other. lolbrbrFor sĸınn ını osbrby Victoria Tarrani aka tori br.brbrYou are the one whos strong,brfilled with life you rush headlong,brand do everything your heart wishesbrwhile I stay home to do the dishes.brIt never been you that I hatebryour energy and courage I beratebrbecause you do the things I never willbrI have fear of living it keeps me still.brWe fight but I never say the truthbrour words are lies, I want your youth.brI cannot ask you to forgive mebrI know that I cannot stop being beastlybrjealously, I envy and covet your stylebrso how could I ever give you a smile.brbrbrcc please httpanswers.yahoo.comquestionindex?abrbrbrbrbrI hope you and the person with the conflict are able to come to an agreement. Once, where I worked, there was a woman who seemed to just hate me, and I had no idea why. But, we drew names for Christmas and I drew hers. Id sneak little secret Santa presents into her office nearly every day, hoping that the surprise would reach her heart. There was the big revelation and she was shocked, came over and hugged me as she thanked me for making her days brighter. We were never close friends, but there was no more bitterness between us.brbrI hope you can get it worked out.br.



How do we expect God to help us if we have taken him out of everything...?


Question


How do we expect God to help us if we have taken him out of everything...?
My question is just that, I saw a question on here about how come hasnt helped us...Im just curious as to how we think God can help us if we dont want him there??


Answer


Yeah, I get it why should he help us were sinners and we try to push him out of our lives. But when it gets tough for us we ask for help.I dont think we deserve it yet hes still there for us.brbr By the way I saw Shanas answer and I thought that was a really good response.