Thursday, October 4, 2012

How do I overcome depression DUE TO lack of sexrelationship?


Question


How do I overcome depression DUE TO lack of sexrelationship?
I am bit depressed because I am single and not in a sexual relationship. I feel as odd a s it seems STRANGE because I havent been with anyone sexually in a year or so. last time I slept with someone, he left me to feel used. A lot people around me ARE bragging about their sexual conquests and I feel left out even AT yo. I would love a relationship and intimacy, but its hard to find. I start college in the Fall and hoping my depression may change. But because of my lack of sex and a relationship I feel like I am judged and making me fall into depression.


Answer


Let me start by apologizing for some of the ignorant unhelpful answers that you got. You are fine. Dont compare your self to the people who are hopping from bed to bed. These people dont have real relationships either. They are just using each other like rabbits to mask their insecurity about their inability to actually love and trust others.brbrEven when these types of relationships do lead to marriage it seldom lasts. A lot of us are proud of you for having the courage to wait for someone who actually cares about you rather than joining the crowd of self abusers.brbrYou may be judged buy some of these people. It is common to find fault with those who do not do things the same way we do, even if what we are doing is idiotic. Remember this about judgment, in the final analysis does it really matter what the confused think?brbrIt is a mark of good sense to just wait until you find someone who you are comfortable with. Someone who cares about you. You are fine just the way that you are dont join the lemmings in their headlong rush over the cliff.brbrLove and blessings Don



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